“A man wants to be a woman’s first love, a woman wants to be his last.” – Oscar Wilde
Just in case you are in a relationship where your partner suffers from retroactive jealousy, you may recommend him/her to read this article “10 Ways to Deal With Your Partner’s Sexual Past (Because You Have To)”. I found it captivating and make you go, dang, that’s so true.
For those of you who are not familiar with the term retroactive jealousy, to make things simple, it is basically (near if not obsessive) jealousy over past (mostly sexual) relationships of our partners. This jealousy is not to be cured, instead, it needs to be dealt with.
From my retrospect, it should not matter how many sexual partners your current loved ones have had in the past, how extravagant those sexual activities were for her, the only thing that matters is the fact that those partners are in the past and he or she is with you now in the present. Those experiences made your loved ones become who she or he is right now. The guy slash girl that you fell in love with. They don’t become half of the person of what they are because you found out about those experiences. It’s all in your mind, in your mind.
Stop judging them, don’t even come to think to blame them for this. Love them just the way you always do.
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