Disappointment

12May09

Disappointment comes in so many forms. It happens when you found out you didn’t get the job you always wanted. Or when your scholarship application didn’t get through. It also comes when you decided to meet someone you just met online the day before and realized that he’s not good looking, or he doesn’t think you’re good looking, or you two got lost in translation and spent all night not talking. Disappointment also comes when you realized that he’s just not that in to you, or he thinks that you’re annoying, or he doesn’t have the mood talking to you, or he just doesn’t respond even if you’ve thrown yourself at him.

When that happens, you are entitled to feel insecure, defeated, or somewhat furious. Just take a deep breath, get away from your computer screen for a while. Close your eyes. Calm yourself. Do not get back online. Get to your phone. Erase all his messages he sent, you sent to him, his number, his call logs. Do not stealth on his yahoo, it never turns out well for you.

Just remember all the things why he is so wrong for you in so many levels. Seriously, you don’t want to end up with this guy. Find yourself another obsession. Kill your time. If you have work to do, make sure that most of the time, it’s work all the time.

Don’t let this guy consumes you. So he didn’t catch your bait, just suck it in. There are a lot of other fishes in the sea. Leave in style, never reach him again. You deserve the world, and he’s not in it.

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